Monday, July 7, 2008

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage.

Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile,

"Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or

when she does something wrong.

Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses,

she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face.

Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at.

This is the start of a war.

We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person,

The other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

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Remember one thing in life :

"Good life starts only when you stop wanting a better one"

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